Where does your relationship actually stand today?
Ten gentle questions. One clear Relationship Pulse Score. A compassionate first look at your attachment style, patterns, triggers, and emotional needs — free.
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A clear picture, gently held
Relationship Pulse Score
A single 0–100 score reflecting the overall health of how you relate — honest and compassionate.
Your attachment tendency
Anxious, avoidant, or secure — explored without clinical labels, with warmth and care.
Your recurring pattern
The dance you find yourself in again and again — named with care, not blame.
Your core triggers
What sets you off — and what's quietly underneath it, softer than you expect.
Your emotional needs
What you most need to feel safe, loved, and fully yourself in a close relationship.
A gentle first step
One small, doable invitation for the week ahead. No overhaul — just gentle motion.
Three simple steps
Answer 10 questions
Gentle, honest prompts about how you relate. No right answers — only true ones.
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Submit your name, WhatsApp, and email to unlock your personalised results.
Get your results
See your Pulse Score instantly. Vincent follows up on WhatsApp within 24 hours.
Clarity comes from pausing to look inward
Most of us move through our closest relationships on autopilot — reacting from old patterns, protecting old wounds, without ever quite naming what's happening.
Ten honest questions won't fix everything. But they can give you the language to begin — and a score that says, clearly: here is where you are.
Take the free assessmentTen gentle questions
Reflect honestly
Deep down, I worry I'm not truly lovable as I am.
There are no right answers. Trust your first response.
Reflect honestly
When my partner goes quiet, I tend to read the worst into it.
Notice the feeling before the thought.
Reflect honestly
I find it easier to give love than to receive it gracefully.
Think of the last time someone complimented or cared for you.
Reflect honestly
I often feel I need to earn my place in this relationship.
Let your gut answer before your mind edits it.
Reflect honestly
When there's conflict, I tend to withdraw rather than speak up.
Think of your most recent disagreement.
Reflect honestly
I feel genuinely seen and understood by the people closest to me.
Not just heard — truly seen, as you are.
Reflect honestly
I replay difficult conversations, wondering what I did wrong.
Be honest — it's more common than most people admit.
Reflect honestly
I have a clear sense of my own needs in this relationship and can name them.
Awareness, not performance, is what we're exploring here.
Reflect honestly
I feel safe enough to be vulnerable with the people I'm closest to.
Safety here means emotional, not just physical.
Final question
Overall, I believe this relationship has room to grow and deepen.
Whatever the current state — potential is worth noticing.
Your assessment is complete
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Vincent will personally follow up on WhatsApp with your full insights within 24 hours.
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Reading your compass…
The Relationship Blueprint Report™
Your 10-question pulse tells you where you are. The Blueprint tells you why — and what to gently do next.
After your free results, unlock the full report for a one-time SGD 39. A personalised, multi-page report written in Vincent's voice — warm, specific, and never pathologising.
- Attachment insightHow your dominant attachment tendency shapes how you love and protect yourself.
- Trigger mapWhat sets you off in closeness, and the softer feeling underneath each trigger.
- Blind spots3–5 gentle blind spots worth noticing — written to invite reflection, not shame.
- 7-day practice planOne small, doable practice per day. No overhaul — just gentle motion.
- Reflection questions4–6 honest questions to sit with — alone, journalled, or shared with someone you trust.
Heard with kindness
"I didn't expect a 10-question quiz to land so accurately. It named something I'd been circling around for years."
"Vincent's follow-up on WhatsApp felt genuinely personal. Not a copy-paste. He actually read my score and responded to me."
"The questions are deceptively simple. I sat with question three for a full minute before answering. That's rare."
About Vincent Soo
Vincent Soo is a certified relationship coach, a certified infidelity recovery therapist, and an integrative subconscious mind coach who helps thoughtful adults understand the subconscious patterns shaping their closest relationships.
He works gently toward more secure, honest love — without blame, shame, or clinical distance. His approach draws from attachment theory, somatic awareness, and the quiet intelligence already inside each person he works with.
Authentic Relationship Code™ was built as a free starting point — a way to offer clarity to anyone willing to sit with ten honest questions.